Do I Have to Tell My Partner I Want an Abortion?

Discovering an unexpected pregnancy can be overwhelming. You might struggle with what you should do and who to tell. You don't have to tell your partner you want an abortion, but it might be best in the long run.

Before you decide who to tell, confirm your pregnancy first. Choices Options for Women can provide free confirmation. Schedule an appointment today.

You would think a late period and a positive pregnancy test would be enough to determine the viability of your pregnancy, but it may not be. Viability means your pregnancy is developing with a detectable heartbeat.

Experts estimate that as many as 26% of all pregnancies end in a miscarriage, and most of those occur in the first 12 weeks. It's possible to get a positive pregnancy test after a miscarriage because it takes time for the body to return to pre-pregnancy hormone levels.

If you're considering abortion, you need to know if your pregnancy is viable or if you've miscarried first. These are the steps you should take:

Even if you've already taken a test, taking another is critical. You need to confirm the results of your first test.

Choices Options for Women provides free and confidential pregnancy tests administered by our licensed Registered Nurse or clinical manager. You can be assured you are getting the correct result.

An ultrasound is an essential diagnostic tool to confirm your pregnancy. Through an ultrasound, you learn if your pregnancy is developing or if you have miscarried, how far along you are in your pregnancy, and the pregnancy's location.

This is vital information to protect your health and safety. We offer a free and confidential ultrasound performed by a Registered Diagnostic Medical Sonographer.

Once you confirm your pregnancy is developing, you may want to discuss your options with your partner. It all depends on the type of relationship you have. If you are dating and hope to have a future together, you shouldn't keep the pregnancy a secret. Honesty is always the best policy for healthy relationships.

If your partner is abusive and you're concerned for your safety, do not hesitate to contact someone. Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-SAFE (7233) or chat with someone online. They are available 24/7 for confidential assistance.

An unplanned pregnancy can occur with anyone, regardless of whether you're in a relationship with them or not. You are not obligated to tell them, but you may want to because this decision will impact their life whether they realize it or not.

You should obtain the necessary information about your pregnancy and your overall physical and mental health before making any decision. Although we do not perform or refer for abortion, we can confirm your pregnancy and provide facts about abortion procedures and potential risks.

Schedule a free and confidential appointment with Choices Options for Women. We're here for you!

All abortion information sourced in this blog is based on accurate information at the time of writing.